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Private, psychology-based matchmaking for discerning Long Island singles — from the Gold Coast to the Hamptons — personalized searches, careful vetting and complete discretion.
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Sameera Sullivan Matchmakers provides private, psychology-based matchmaking to successful and affluent singles across Long Island — from the Gold Coast estates of Manhasset, Old Westbury and Oyster Bay to Garden City, Port Washington and the Hamptons — from its Manhattan office at 276 Fifth Avenue. Led by CEO Sameera Sullivan, a former aerospace-industry executive recruiter with a Master’s in Adult Psychology and nearly two decades of matchmaking experience, the boutique firm keeps a deliberately limited client roster and is retained by professionals who want results without the trial and error of dating apps.
Long Island clients are served by the same New York team by private appointment or remote consultation. Rather than placing you in a large database and assigning an account manager, Sameera stays personally involved in the search, vetting and introductions.
The result is a selective, discreet alternative to dating apps and high-volume agencies — built for people whose time, privacy and standards are worth protecting.
The Long Island Market
Long Island’s affluent singles live in two very different worlds. On the North Shore, country-club and school communities in Manhasset, Garden City and Old Westbury run close-knit — comfortable, established and nearly impossible to date in without everyone knowing.
Out east, the Hamptons offer a glittering summer scene that evaporates after Labor Day — plenty of social access, very little of it serious. Successful singles in both worlds describe the same problem: the people they meet are either already known or just passing through.
A private, citywide search solves both: vetted introductions drawn from across metropolitan New York, matched on values and intentions — and run with the discretion tight communities demand.
What Sets Us Apart
Long Island has no shortage of social life — clubs, benefits, charity galas, summer seasons. What it lacks is a selective, discreet process run by someone personally accountable for the outcome. That is what Sameera Sullivan Matchmakers provides.
Boutique, one-on-one attention from CEO Sameera Sullivan — not an account manager
The rigor of a former executive recruiter applied to your personal life
Psychology-based matching with in-depth personality profiling
Every introduction personally screened and interviewed before you meet
Complete discretion — no public profile, no country-club gossip
A curated network across metropolitan New York — far beyond your own circles
The freedom to pause your search while a promising relationship develops
A deliberately limited client roster, so each search gets full attention
Clients receive direct access to Sameera, detailed searches, careful vetting and a process measured by lasting relationships — not the number of dates.
Tailored to the Individual
No two clients arrive with the same history, priorities or concerns. Our Long Island matchmaking is tailored to the individual rather than built around a one-size-fits-all program.
For
Accomplished women often have full careers, full personal lives and high standards. On Long Island, the added difficulty is a social world where the compatible men are either already spoken for — or already discussed.
Sameera takes time to understand what has and has not worked before, then searches across metropolitan New York for men whose character and intentions align. Women who prefer a more private path may also explore Sameera’s women’s matchmaking and registry options.
For
Many successful men have little time to date and little interest in sorting through hundreds of profiles — or in being recognized on one. They meet people socially or professionally, yet still struggle to find women who are compatible, available and serious about a relationship.
Our men’s matchmaking process gives men access to personally screened candidates chosen for more than appearance — values, lifestyle and relationship goals. The purpose is not more dates. It is better introductions.
For
Gay men on Long Island often find that meeting someone serious means choosing between a limited local scene and apps that create visibility without compatibility.
Private matchmaking offers a discreet, focused alternative with reach across metropolitan New York. Sameera also offers dedicated matchmaking and private registry options for gay men.
Selective Option
Not everyone is ready to become a full matchmaking client. Some qualified singles may be considered for one of Sameera Sullivan Matchmakers’ private registries.
Registry participation offers the chance to be considered for introductions when a client’s search aligns with your background and goals. It is a selective option — not a public singles database.
The Process
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An in-depth conversation about who you are and what you want next. Long Island clients begin by private remote consultation or in person at our Manhattan office at 276 Fifth Avenue — a short walk from Penn Station and Grand Central Madison on the LIRR.
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We look beyond age and profession to emotional availability, communication style, values and the traits most likely to create a durable connection — informed by in-depth personality profiling.
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Sameera personally vets and interviews finalists, then draws from a curated network across metropolitan New York — not just your town. After each introduction, candid feedback refines the search.
Common Questions
No. Sameera Sullivan Matchmakers serves Long Island through its New York office at 276 Fifth Avenue in Manhattan. Long Island is an area served by the New York team, not a separate business location.
Yes. We work with year-round East End residents as well as clients who split their time between the Hamptons and the city. The search follows your life, not one address.
No — and for many clients, that is the point. Your search draws on vetted candidates across metropolitan New York, matched on lifestyle and relationship goals rather than proximity alone.
The office at 276 Fifth Avenue is a short walk from Penn Station and Grand Central Madison, both served directly by the LIRR. Many clients simply begin with a private remote consultation.
Completely. In country-club communities and summer colonies where word travels, discretion is not a feature of the service — it is the service. No public profile, no local visibility.
Yes. The team works with successful women, straight men and gay men, and the process is personalized to each individual’s goals.
Long Island’s communities attract people with very different priorities and lifestyles. We do not treat these areas as separate office locations — they are communities served by our New York matchmaking team.
North Shore professionals with Manhattan careers and deep local roots — accomplished, established and rarely more than one degree of separation from anyone they might date locally.
Attorneys, physicians and executives near the county seat who value stability and standards — and want a search that respects both.
Estate-country singles for whom privacy is a way of life, and for whom a public dating profile was never an option.
A dazzling summer social season that rarely produces something lasting. Year-round and weekend residents alike come to us for introductions that outlive August.
Writers, founders and financiers who split their time between the East End and the city — and need a search that moves between both worlds as easily as they do.
Long Island is a service area of our New York office. We work with clients across Nassau, western Suffolk and the East End, including:
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The New York Service Area
Work With the New York Team
Long Island singles should not have to choose between a social world that knows them too well and dating apps that do not know them at all. Your search is managed through the established New York matchmaking office, with Long Island clearly defined as part of the area it serves.
New York Office
Address
276 Fifth Avenue, Suite 704-797
New York, NY 10001
Telephone
(646) 681-5711
Serving
All of Long Island & the Hamptons — by appointment
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