{"id":3280,"date":"2019-02-07T22:37:50","date_gmt":"2019-02-07T22:37:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lastingconnections.net\/?p=3280"},"modified":"2019-02-07T22:37:50","modified_gmt":"2019-02-07T22:37:50","slug":"4-ways-to-build-trust-when-dating-a-wealthy-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sameerasullivan.com\/4-ways-to-build-trust-when-dating-a-wealthy-person\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Ways To Build Trust When Dating a Wealthy Person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are a lot of people out for things in<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lastingconnections.net\/locations\/elite-matchmaking-new-york-ny\/\"> New York City.<\/a> If a person has a lot of money, they may be more guarded than the typical date. If you are genuinely looking for love and not money, it\u2019s important to get this point across. There are ways you can avoid putting attention on money and instead, direct focus to the potential romance. If you\u2019re able to show the person your intentions are real and you want to get to know them, you will give them the confidence that you\u2019re in it for legitimate reasons.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t Force The Issue<\/h2>\n<p>Don\u2019t outright mention you\u2019re not interested in someone\u2019s money. This is probably going to be more of a red flag than a reassurance. Gracefully direct the conversation to topics other than money. Don\u2019t mention that you already have all you need. If you are relaxed and genuine, that will shine through without you having to mention it. This part requires you to truly be happy with who you are, when you love yourself, you come off as confident, not desperate. Be genuine and show that you are looking for something real. Your date will see that attitude shine through greater than any words you could say in your own favor.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t Seem Impressed<\/h2>\n<p>If your date should mention their trip to the Maldives or their recent lunch at Eleven Madison Park, don\u2019t overreact. Be graceful about it and if you have any knowledge to add, do so. Some wealthy individuals who have previously had bad experiences with gold-diggers may flaunt their wealth, trying to test you. Be patient with this behavior and don\u2019t act impressed by whatever is flaunted. Redirect the conversation away from the subject of finances and expensive material things when it seems natural to do so. Eventually, your date will begin to feel that you don&#8217;t\u00a0see them as a meal ticket and will hopefully relax and settle into a deeper conversation.<\/p>\n<h2>Ask Them About Their Character<\/h2>\n<p>The character of a person has nothing to do with how much money they may have in the bank or what assets they may own. Without getting too personal too quickly, ask your date about things that they care about in life. It\u2019s not that you should avoid everything surrounding money, find out why they love their career. Ask them about where they grew up. Showing a genuine interest in their life will allow you to connect on a deeper level. In turn, your date will notice that you truly see them and that you value their character and not their wallet.<\/p>\n<h2>Offer to Pay<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re really not out for a person\u2019 money, why not pick up the bill? Most men in New York City that have a sense of class (and of course money) will offer to pay. Many times, a women won\u2019t even bring her wallet let alone offer to pay. If you\u2019re going on a date with someone and you don\u2019t want them to think you\u2019re only dating them for their money, bring your wallet and offer to pay. If he declines, allow him to pay. There is a fine line between seeming independent by offering and seeming socially awkward by forcing the point. More men than you realize are willing to split the bill.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re genuinely not looking to be with someone for their money, things will begin to flow naturally once you spend some time together. How you deal with the date will help them realize it\u2019s not what\u2019s in their wallet that counts. Focus on the person and on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lastingconnections.net\/5-fun-date-options-in-the-bronx\/\">connecting with them on a deeper level.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are a lot of people out for things in New York City. If a person has a lot of money, they may be more guarded than the typical date. If you are genuinely looking for love and not money, it\u2019s important to get this point across. 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