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“I haven’t had the best experience with matchmakers in the past. Over the years, I’ve hired 2 matchmakers in New York, both of them promised the world and underdelivered. I don’t consider myself a picky man, but I do expect results. Sameera is brutally honest, but also extremely compassionate and kind. The perfect combo when it comes to dating. Not only did Sameera introduce me to some lovely ladies within the first two weeks, I quickly found myself in a serious relationship with one of them.” – Patrick, Client

Sameera Sullivan, Top matchmaker for Professional and Affluent Singles in NYC

Sameera Sullivan has set herself apart as one of the nation’s most successful matchmakers specializing in consulting for professionals and affluent individuals with unmatched experience in the complex world of New York dating. Her team’s expertise means you spend the least amount of wasted time on trial and error and more time dating a wonderful match.

With Sameera Sullivan’s matchmaking service you get:

– Boutique one-on-one attention with CEO, Sameera Sullivan rather than an account manager.

– Face-to-face consultation at our New York location.

– The most detailed searches with comprehensive vetting.

– Definitive vetting of prospective matches. Sameera personally interviews final candidates.

– Guarantee of quality based on the highest success rate in the industry. 

– Ability to pause services while seeing someone and role retainer into a second year if needed.

– Proven to prevent up to 90% wasted time as compared to dating without a professional matchmaker

Beat the New York dating game by working with a pro

Manhattan is full of beautiful, strong, and career focused women. Where does that leave men who are high net worth, have great careers, and want to find a fun, playful, beautiful women who will appreciate them for everything they have to offer? Not all men want to get married. This is where an expert relationship consultant comes in to do the legwork, networking, screening and match you with the the right person. Whether you’re looking for a serious partner, platonic companion, or someone just to date, our professionals work with men with different goals and search for their perfect partner.


Dating in NYC is difficult especially for women, and finding men who want a committed relationship is even harder. There is a higher women to man ratio in Manhattan and for dating, that becomes super challenging especially for women who are over 30. This is where our private registry, virtual matchmaking and dating consulting services give women in New York the best advantage for finding their perfect match.


Call us now and let’s make dating in New York what it should be… a fun adventure of meeting exciting men and women that match what you’re looking for.

How it works?

Depending on the package you apply for, you’ll be placed with either Sameera Sulivan or one of her matchmakers . We will guide you through a process that includes one-on-one coaching sessions, the chance to really get to know yourself and your needs in a relationship via in-depth personality profiling with one of our resident psychologists.

Sit back and enjoy the process. No more drain on your time looking for love (and as a bonus your matchmaker also vets your possible dates beforehand).

We understand the many frustrations that come with dating and developing a meaningful relationship, therefore we cater our process to the needs and wants of yours.


Sameera has been a great find and has saved me from the online dating drudgery. I no longer have to wade through endless inflated bios, and waste significant amounts of time and energy on countless emails, only to find out that the person is a terrible match when we finally meet. Those days are now a thing of the past.
Bill M.
Sameera's team has made a real difference in my life. My only regret in engaging them is that I should have done it immediately after my divorce, rather than a few years into it. The quality of people I have worked with is outstanding, the quality of matches have far exceeded any I could have found on my own, and it is a completely discreet process.
Sameera Sullivan is incredible as a matchmaker. She takes the time to get to know you personally, then applies that knowledge to search for the right woman that would fit your needs. She will leave no stone unturned until she finds you the women you want. Sameera is trustworthy and a great confidant. I highly recommend Sameera!
Sameera and her team helped me feel comfortable with meeting men with whom I had no previous contact, and are perceptive about what would make a good match for me. I’m very happy that I’ve made a great match with someone special.


Almost All Of Our Clients Have Been Referred To Us, And We Think That Says It All.

Ms. Sullivan dynamically leads her matchmaking team with years of experience in management-level professional recruiting, elite, professional matchmaking & private-client headhunting. Sameera’s customized, concierge dating service is fully confidential — we work one-on-one with high-net-worth male clients who value our discreet yet enterprising methods.

We only work with a small group of clients at one time, ensuring unparalleled, personalized care, empathic listening, analytic prowess and intuitive grace. We call it “Heart-Reading,” and it creates a nuanced experience, providing a unique opportunity to delve into what you think you want in a mate, and what you need on deeper levels as well.

From in-depth personality analysis to breaking down your past relationships, to finding what subtle traits predict success, we are here to guide you. We’ll find out what makes you tick, what pushes your buttons, what makes you innately happy, and help you create the most exciting dates of your life. We’ll even help you refine your image, because women enjoy the “whole package” too.


Direct Private Access:

Available ongoing private access to Sameera personally

Highly Selective:

We vet and limit the number of one-on-one clients we take to ensure our attention is all on you.


We maintain strict confidentiality standards expected by notable and public figures.


Proprietary methods for decreasing time taken to find you the right match and time involved on your part.


Stop Dating App Madness:

End the cycle with professional, done-with-you help and consulting.

Professional Evaluation:

Our relationship expert and psychologist assists you in narrowing down what you really want in a match so that we can help you find them.


One-on-one dating and relationship coaching to get you on the fast track to satisfying experiences.

Comprehensive Personal Image Revamping:

From makeup and wardrobe, to photoshoots and profile setup, we will craft your best image with you.


NYC has more matchmakers and matchmaking services than any other city. So we know it can be tough. But consider, Sameera Sullivan has a virtually unrivaled success rate in New York (see below). Sameera only works with professionals and high net worth individuals so she is extremely experienced in and sensitive to the needs of people who need results without wasting time. Sameera’s unique background in corporate headhunting also gives her a special skillset that others in the city lack. Last, no one works with more clients who have come straight from lower cost “services” in New York than Sameera and her team. We routinely restore New Yorker’s faith that there is such a thing as professional matchmaking after bad experiences with other agencies. 


Of course, we encourage you to do your due-diligence, because we want you to be ready and willing to take the next step. Please ask us questions about our process, clientele and anything else that may be on your mind!

Most matchmaking services in New York are really just expensive dating services. So, often they measure success rates based primarily on dating metrics such as how many good dates you’ve had. 


By contrast, we are here to help you find a lasting connection that is truely satisfying. We consider success when a client is in a relationship for one year of more! 90% of our clients end up in a long term relationship, 1 year. 75% of our clients are in current relationships that are above the 1 year mark.

The abundance of singles actually makes finding a match harder for many people rather than easier as some might expect.


Dating in New York tends to be difficult because there are SO MANY options for both men and women. With too much opportunity, singles become unfocused resulting in stagnant relationships.


We can help stop the cycle of being the victim of “dating A.D.D.” as it were. 

We meet every potential client personally or via virtual meeting. During the initial meeting, we will chat with you about everything from a “wish list” to family values and where to raise your children, to habits you like in a partner, mannerisms, background, education level, hobbies, siblings, and anything else you deem relevant. There are no computer programs on earth that can truly match clients properly – it’s a roulette wheel to hope you meet someone organically or by endlessly browsing hundreds of profiles online with no knowledge of their exact personality. This is what is unique about Lasting Connections matchmaking service. We provide a “hands-on” approach with extensive follow-up and feedback after each introduction. Lasting Connections owner, Sameera Sullivan, has a Masters in Adult Psychology, has worked as a top recruiter in the Aerospace industry, and has a rare intuitive grace – a “sixth sense” about chemistry and dating. She uses her experience along with a little “woman’s intuition,” to determine who belongs with whom in a collaborative, interactive, comprehensive and easy-going process

Sameera sullivan matchmakers new york office

Sameera Sullivan Matchmakers New York City


276 5th Avenue, Suite 704-797

New York City

New York, 10001

(646) 681-5711


If you’re a prospective client in New York, we’re happy to have an in-person discussion with you at our office on 5th Avenue. To get an appointment, complete our application on the page that fits you:


Fill out the form and one of our matchmakers will reach out to you to chat about your options. We only work with a handfull of clients per year so you can rest assured that this is not a match firm that employs high pressure sales tactics. We can discuss your needs and provide simple transparent answers.

Find Love Today

Nothing can compare to the satisfaction we feel when we help a client find love. There can be no job more satisfying. Myself and each of my matchmakers simply thrive when we see the happiness our clients exude; but a successful “match” to many agencies often means something as simple as someone you are compatible enough with to date for a while. It takes so much more than that to find a lasting connection. That’s why we work hard to find more than your match.